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Bridge to Change Retreat: Inspiration, Unity and Vision
by Gaoib Xiong
During the second week of March, Partners for Women’s Equality hosted its very first Bridge to Change for Indigenous Women Retreat. Eighteen Bridge Partners, Indigenous women working in their communities to end violence against women and children, left their busy lives and gathered at the Mount Olivet Retreat Center in Farmington, Minnesota. Women from five countries, all walking to the beats of their own drums and in their own directions, found a junction in time that brought them together and led them to strive for a common dream: resources, support, sisterhood, encouragement, and drive to find peace, equality, and safety for their communities
Bridge Partners at Mount Olivet Retreat Center
The welcome reception for the Bridge Partners retreat was an eye opener. Bridge Partners, volunteers, interns, staff, and board members came together to share a meal and the reality of Bridge to Change for Indigenous Women. As an intern helping with Partners for Women’s Equality I attended the dinner with other interns to help welcome the brave Bridge Partners to Minnesota, but to our surprise it was the Bridge Partners who welcomed us. In less than a day, the Bridge Partners had fused their different paths and drives for equality into one movement. The collection of varying ages, experiences, histories, wisdom, work and lives of all these women was a utopia of inspiration.
The community of each Bridge Partner will benefit from the union and sisterhood created at the conference. The sisters discussed visions, made goals, and learned skills from the workshops. The bond with each other and Bridge Builders (personal coaches) will support them through the steps of building themselves, each other and their communities. They look forward to gathering again at the end of 2009.
Meet Bridge Partner Catherine Mututua
Catherine Mututua of Kenya was one of the international Bridge Partners selected to travel to Minnesota for the Bridge to Change for Indigenous Women retreat. Catherine lives in the Rift valley, Kajiado district where she works with the Namayiana Maasai Women’s group. The group of 112 women runs a shop and a women’s center. The center in Kimuka is where women design, construct, package and prepare jewelry to generate income. They sell their jewelry locally in the shop and internationally at fair trade shops like Ten Thousand Villages.
Catherine Mututua (left) at Bridge to Change Retreat, and her Bridge Builder (coach), Rose Tuiyott-Lewis.
The women’s group also works to preserve women’s health, education and the environment. While working at the center, women also develop communication skills, learn about health, politics and leadership. They learn about their personal rights to education, to inherit property, to be safe, to own property. Catherine’s participation in the retreat has given her a rejuvenated sense of strength. At the retreat, she improved her personal leadership skills and learned new ways of generating interest and help for her group. She bonded with 18 other Bridge Partners who are now her supporting sisters. Rose Tuiyott-Lewis, her Bridge Builder, will continue to work with Catherine throughout the year to attain the goals she has set for herself.
The goal of the women’s group is to empower the women; by crafting jewelry women are generating income to help feed, clothe, and educate their children and families – they gain an independent voice and financially contribute to the family.
During Catherine’s trip to Minnesota she was successful in selling the jewelry she brought with her from the Namayiana Maasai Women’s group. If any one of you have connections to groups that might assist Catherine in the sale of her jewelery, please email Maureen White Eagle and she will connect you.
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Bridge Partners reflect on the retreat experience
“…I learned to have respect for myself and my voice”
“My self esteem was enhanced and I will take away this renewed strength and will use the skills I learned in the retreat classes”
“I realized that I could actually bring the change I needed for the women and children in my community..”
"The synergy of the women was intense with an element of matrilineal strength and wisdom. The most important take away was feeling empowered and reassured.”
“… to network globally, to think creatively and infuse my cultural strengths in my work..”
“My self confidence was greatly improved. I feel stronger and able to change the views of my people.”
"The retreat helped me to reaffirm that I do have skills to draw from in creating positive change of Native children.”
“I came away focused on my vision and how I will need to achieve it.”
“I learned it is important to provide a strong foundation before moving forward toward a goal.”
“…we are not alone.”
"The project will affect the rest of our lives and send, not ripples, but waves into our communities."
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